all at once. -- i identify as queer, cisgender, and polyamorous -- things i talk about frequently and openly: mental health/illness, stigma; social work and social justice; native american culture and sociopolitical issues; queer things (identity, sex/sexuality, politics, gender); poly; kink.
We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden in as if caves. I wish for all of this to be marked on my body when I am dead. I believe in such cartography — to be marked by nature, not just to label ourselves on a map like the names of rich men and women on buildings. We are communal histories, communal books. We are not owned or monogamous in our taste or experience. All I desired was to walk upon an earth that had no maps.