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omvlkv

all at once. -- i mostly post thoughts and feelings i have and reblog art. -- things i talk about frequently and openly: mental health/illness, stigma; social work and social justice; queer things (identity, sex/sexuality, politics, gender); polyamory!!!; kink (i'm a brat unicorn sub switch LITTLE).
Jul 31 '14

how’s my body gonna wake up drunk and then be hypomanic all morning?

i seriously woke up and thought i had vertigo for a second, but it wasn’t vertigo.

and now i’m all amped up and ready to go. bouncing off the walls. i’m never awake in the mornings. what is this.

Jul 30 '14

MELTING WITH JEALOUSY

DRINKING ALCOHOL WITH FRIENDS AND TEXTING NO ONE

and tomorrow i will tell them, “oh hell i was jealous, but everything is fine.”

but right now my skin is crawling. after this third drink i’ll be solid.

alcohol and good friends is the cure all. i’m fine. i’ll journal about it at work in the morning and everything is fine.

Jul 30 '14
Jul 30 '14
itstotallyher:

I flit and float around the bottom three.

itstotallyher:

I flit and float around the bottom three.

Jul 30 '14
i painted my #fingernails to match my business casual. i am officially an #adult and #femme.

i painted my #fingernails to match my business casual. i am officially an #adult and #femme.

Jul 30 '14
i feel like i’m in europe.

i feel like i’m in europe.

Jul 30 '14

J and i had an attachment talk last night

he just teases me a lot about partner-y things, and it reached a rate where i got the hint that he needed a conversation. i probably also needed it.

he said people say they won’t get attached, then they do, and that’s when he hurts them.

i basically said that i’m leaving in 15-18 months, and nothing is coming with me. whatever i do in the meantime has to be awesome, because if it’s not awesome, it’s not worth doing. i told him i was going to get attached, but that i wasn’t going to try to control or own him.

he seemed happy with that.

now the challenge is, i have to live up to my end of the autonomy deal.

good thing he had a tangle of rope tied to his head board when i got there so i had some practice not inquiring into his sex life and letting him tell me what he wants when he wants.

Jul 30 '14
hplyrikz:

Clear your mind here


i think of tumblr as a journal. that’s why i’m so open and post such personal things. it’s telling people they’re not alone, but it’s also there to remind me the road i went down to get here.

hplyrikz:

Clear your mind here

i think of tumblr as a journal. that’s why i’m so open and post such personal things. it’s telling people they’re not alone, but it’s also there to remind me the road i went down to get here.

Jul 30 '14
"Historically in Native communities, formalized Western education was used as a tool of cultural genocide, a tool of assimilation. With the whole government-run boarding school system—a system that my own grandmother and my aunties went through as well—where the professed model was to kill the Indian and save the man. For so many decades and generations, this idea of going off to school meant losing your Native culture. It meant that part of you was forcibly erased. You weren’t allowed to speak your language. You weren’t allowed to practice your culture. That is a legacy that occurred up until the 1960s and ’70s, so this isn’t ancient history…[we are re-framing] this idea—going to college is not about losing your identity as a Native person. It’s a way for you to give back to your community. It’s a way for you to build up your nation. It’s a way for to gain the skills and knowledge that your nation needs."
Jul 30 '14

darkravn:

polylove-girls-blog:

slaysbelles:

new romantic comedy pitch: a young woman falls in love with two people at once: her best friend and a guy she met online dating.

PLOT TWIST: her best friend is a girl. she’s bi. she says the word bisexual in the script.

PLOT TWIST 2: she’s not forced to choose. it ends in polyamory. all three of them are in a healthy, open relationship where they all equally support each other physically and emotionally.

Pure awesome!

This sounds amazing.

yeah, but they’ll still probably name it something stupid like Love Triangle.